Really I wonder how do people find out? Or lets put it like these: as a woman how do I care whether some man like me or not? And what's so great to be liked by man? To get some gross complements? Cause no normal man will complement the look of woman he hardly knows and if he does know me I'd rather presume he's complementing my good nature in a friendly way. I will totally prefer to look the way I like. Some things that are supposed to be liked by man for example big boobs feels terrible (not when you touch them lol but to carry them around, to live through the hot weather or to sleep). I'd never chose to have it if it's up to my choice.
My point is you have much more benefits being liked by yourself then by anybody else. Of course it can be the same thing. I think its only about the look cause I care about what people think of me. Maybe way too much. I like to be liked by others, I want them to consider me kind, honest and good person not selfish and funny and so on. But as for look it's a bit different. Or maybe it's the same thing after all! I've just realized! I care about people who like personal qualities I also consider likable if smb thinks it's cool to be a bitch so I can't be bothered as well as smb thinks it's beautiful to have "curves".
